Is naming your vagina really that important

Yes, it's very important. Your question should be "Is naming your sex organ really that important?" The vagina is the birth canal. Would a man like his sex organ to be reduced to just his "testicles?" To refer to a woman's sex organ as a "vagina" is inadequate. It leaves out the inner lips and the clitoris that is far more extensive than most realize. Besides the clitoral shaft, hood and glans that are all visible, there are also the clitoral bulbs and legs along with the perineal and urethral sponges inside the body that become erect when stimulated. Women have nearly as much erectile tissue as men, but our erections are internal. When we continually refer to a woman's sex organ as a "vagina," too often both men and women believe that vaginal friction from penetration should be adequate stimulation to orgasm. However, that's not true for the majority of women. A better term would be "vulva" which is more inclusive. Or even saying "clitoris" is better than "vagina." While it's true that some women experience orgasm through vaginal penetration alone, they remain in the minority. (B.Dodson)