'The only thing actually missing in your life is yourself'. When I heard this comment on a seminar, it did ring true to me. And this awareness is bringing me closer and closer to the realtionship I have with me,myself and I.
What is missing in your life? in your sensual side? in your sexuality? Maybe is simply yourself, your sensuality that is already on you. Your sexuality that is screaming for an orgasm.
We are in a relationship with ourselves emotionaly and physically and this relationship includes fun, self-pleasure which can be named: masturbation.
Some magazines says that many woman masturbates these days, but I always become surprised when I hear of many women who do not. According to a Channel 4 programme recently '1/3 of the female population in UK do not masturbate...' .
For masturbation the first step is to emotionally accept that we have a right to have fun with ourselves. Secondly, it to know ourselves down below. Many woman also do not know about their anatomy, they do not know what their vagina looks like.
So, make yourself alone and comfortable. Acquire a good mirror, some light and start examine your vagina. Because what you miss is to get to know yourself...
Start by touching yourself in an introduction way with some patting, you can say 'hi my name is... and yours will be...., give it some TLC - Tender, Love and Care, and start naming the parts of your vagina. Really get to know it. Use the picture above to guide you and also visit the link http://www.coolnurse.com/vagina.htm. This information will be of great use at a later stage.
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Ejem... glub...
I feel a little intimidated by the pic. Maybe a little too..."raw" or too direct? But anyway, I'll take some notes, you can never tell when any knowledge will be useful :P
hi Redtower, I know what you mean by Ejem...glub.. I, when started doing this exercise of Me,Myself, I and the Mirror I also went Ejem...glub... and i did not like what I saw, I felt resistance to appreciate what was a gift to me. It took me a good deal of courage to keep doing the exercise, which I did for a few days, till I felt comfortable with it. Today, I have to say I am always happy when I see it, and between you and me, I find it very pretty. (smiley face here)
And believe it or not, from my experience of communicating with ohter women I came across to a few women who did not know where their clitoris was or from where the urine came from... So, knowledge is power.
I fully agree with you about the knowledge issue. It's just that such "first view" was a little shocking for me, probably because of my male nature (but then, why don't we men feel the same about women's breast :) ?)
Naming vagina, as pointed in the other chapter, is not so important (I remember Heidi Klum talking openly about "Hans" & "Fritz", her boobs, and I thought it a little childish), but if some women feel more confortable or familiar with her body, let's go for it.
Here's a joke: a man is in bed with a woman, but she is exclusively playing with herself, so the man asks her why:
"You see, when we are making love, we fell as one being and one body, so the pleasure I give to myself is shared with you"
"Well darling, nothing against, but I'd be glad if you pay some attention to OUR dick"
Clever joke!!!lol. Anyway, Red Tower, you just have to get over the shock of the picture... if you like women it is as important for you to know one 'vulva' as much as the women herself. So you know which 'buttons' to press when giving pleasure to someone... Anyway, regarding names: as you say some women like giving name to parts of their body - I dont name any part of mine because I am really ok with it - but, you know what? I do know man whose willis have name too... Childish? Well, as far as they are having fun...they can name the car, the pen, the house LOL
Oh, sure. Let the people name whatever they want. Regarding myself, I'll learn how to make it work. I find very satisfying to know I'm pushing (rubbing, licking, touching) the right button in the right way. Girls usually appreciate it (lol)
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